Saturday 21 April 2018

Hello anyone there?


Hello anyone who stills follows me, 

I apologies for not posting sooner but the world kind of went to shit for a while and let’s be honest my beautifully obvious way of pointing it out didn’t quite seems necessary anymore. But I do have some exciting news I have set up a new blog a happier one, one about books. 

I thought I would share my love of reading and put it to use by starting to review books. Not only do I enjoy physical books but I have a large collection on kindle and on my audible account so I’ll probably jump between reviewing physical books, ebooks and audiobooks. 

I have been to YALC in London the last three years in a row this year will be my fourth visit. I can honestly say it is the best three days of the year (minus rugby season) I love being surrounded by likeminded people and everyone is so nice. I have been fortunate to meet some wonderful authors from Lucy Saxon to Dawn Kurtagich
, as well as having had the chance to grab some wonderful extracts and book proofs. 



As for the name of the blog I can not take any credit I am sure I have seen the acronym somewhere before but I love the sentiment and believe to a degree it is true

READ – Readers Enjoy Authors Dreams.
 https://readersenjoyauthorsdreams.blogspot.co.uk





Wednesday 24 May 2017

Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.

You will not have my hate!

You will not have my fear!

And you will most certainly will not stop me living my life!


Here is my light in all this darkness

You only have power over people when there is fear and you shall not have my fear, you know what came of you trying to cause fear?? 
LOVE, SUPPORT AND UNITY

·         #RoomsforManchester started trending normal people who lived nearby offering their houses to support those affected
·         Local shops supplying food and drink to emergency services
·         Local people supplying the emergency services with food and drink
·         Local businesses and bars stayed open to offer free hot drinks and shelter to anyone affected
·         Taxis giving people free rides to wherever they need to go
·         Different religious groups coming together
·         People gathering as many people as they could to safe locations
·         Social media being used to locate loved ones and people sharing pictures to help families and friends locate the missing
·         Go fund me pages popped up to give support to the families affected (£739,630 raised of £750,000 target by 30287 supporters https://www.justgiving.com/crowdfunding/westandtogethermanchester)
·         Blood donors being turned away as too many people are trying to donate
·         Social media being filled with messages of hope, love and people standing up to hate
·         Thousands of people supporting vigils 
·         Monuments around the world showing solidarity
·         Paula Robinson
·         Chris Parker and Steve Jones
·         Kim and Phil Dick
·         John Endsor



This is a little piece of hope amongst all this tragedy and death

Rest in peace to those who have tragically lost their lives

Feel free to judge me for looking for a light but I truly believe in my heart that if we only focus on the hate and the bad we allow them to win, we are stronger together.


Friday 20 January 2017

I am not a Snowflake, I am fire!

Getting called a snowflake because I disagree with trump

‘Generation’ Snowflake, is a term used to characterise young adults of the 2010s as being more prone to taking offence and less resilient than previous generations, or too emotionally vulnerable to cope with views that challenge their own.

I AM NOT A SNOWFLAKE!!!

I am not taking offence,

 I am standing up to bullies who want to legalised sexism, racism, the oppression of minorities and the rights of the LGBT community


I do not need to hide behind legalised hate to voice my opinion.

Wednesday 18 January 2017

Anyone here remember the name Reed O’Connor???


No???

Well he’s the Judge that temporarily blocked an order that would allow a transgender student to use the boys’ bathrooms during his senior year at a Virginia high school. (The case is State of Texas v. U.S.A., 7:16-cv-00054, U.S. District Court, Northern District of Texas, Wichita Falls). This legislation would have it made safer for transgender students to use the bathroom of their choosing.

Well O’Connor is back and believe it or not and even bigger sorry excuse of a human being than last time

O’Connor has brought the Obama administration to a halt again by stopping a legislation that would strengthen transgender rights, this time over health rules that could force doctors to violate their Hippocratic Oath on the grounds of religious beliefs and refuse treatment to the transgender community. O’Connor wasn’t finished there though.

This block in legislation allows doctors to also refuse patients who had an abortion, both under the illusion of ‘religious freedom’. O’Connor took the ruling just one step further, stating that insurance companies are unfairly burdened by having to add transgender individuals and women who have had abortions to their plans. This doesn’t only set transgender rights back 60 years it also pushes woman’s rights back.

The Affordable Care Act (Section 1557) currently protect patients against discrimination in health care on the basis of race, colour, national origin, sex (including gender identity), age or disability. As many federal courts and agencies have determined, “sex discrimination” is still seen as a somewhat unclear concept that can include gender stereotyping and gender-based considerations. Whereas, Anti-trans discrimination is clearly gender stereotyping, while discrimination against women who terminated a pregnancy is rooted in stereotypes about maternity and female sexuality.

 Essentially, people have got mad over the fact that health care professional had to save the lives and protect the health of people who just straight up don’t believe in the things they believe in.


O’Connor just made a ruling means that doctors don’t actually have to do their job to save a life if they don’t like how a patient looks or lives.

O’Connor’s was clearly chosen as he has a history of transphobic rulings and it is clearly the exact reason why he was asked to oversee the case in Texas. This is partly verified by rumours that Congress has moved to repeal Obamacare/the Affordable Care Act. Which means that healthcare in America just got more daunting for some of its most marginalised and vulnerable people. 

O’Connor’s has essentially made it acceptable for doctors to remain uneducated and ignorant of transgender health issues. He has also set back public opinion about research into trans healthcare by a few years. If the ruling sticks a few years will surely grow with every new doctor who refuses treatment of a trans individual.

This also means that doctors are allowed to refuse treatment of people who have previously had an abortion. Given the impending repeal against Obamacare the ACA will undoubtedly take money out of Planned Parenthood, healthcare for people who can get pregnant in this country just got even more complex.

This attack on healthcare and needs to stop, for fear that more and more lives become compromised for the strangely argumentative reasoning of “religious freedom.”

If you believe that “religious freedom” is enough to costs someone else their life, a mother, a father, a child, a family or friend.


Then I hereby declare that it’s not religious freedom its legalised discrimination.

Saturday 4 June 2016

Darkness cannot drive out darkness

Right let’s get some things cleared up.

I hate the words Homophobia and Transphobia.

The English Oxford dictionary defines phobia as;
An extreme or irrational fear or aversion to something.

In my opinion, something to be a phobia, it is more of a fear than a dislike. For example claustrophobia (Extreme or irrational fear of confined places) or agoraphobia (Extreme or irrational fear of open or public places). 

Whereas the definition of Homophobia is a Dislike of or prejudice against homosexual people. The fear part of phobia has been forgotten and now people’s personal dislike that has become the focus. I personally cannot stand rude narrow-minded people but unfortunately there isn’t a Rude-phobia or Narrowminded-phobia.

I cannot believe that being transgender is an actual issue, especially in America. I am looking at them right now because of the current toilet situation.

America is supposed to be “the land of the free and the home of the brave?”Guys! A heads up, it’s in your national anthem.

The Transgender Violence Tracking Portal (TVTP) released its first report in 2014, a couple of days after International Day against Homophobia and Transphobia.

In the first four months of 2014, 102 acts of violence against transgender people have been logged. These are only the cases that have been reported and sadly there have been many more unreported acts of violence because many people are too scared to speak out at the risk of more abuse.

According to the statistics sent out from TVTP, 10 percent of the 102 acts were suffered by transgender youth:
•    An 8-year-old boy was beaten to death by his father
•    A 14-year-old was strangled to death and stuffed under a bed
•    An 18-year-old suffered two violent attacks by a mob and survived

Among the 102-person figure that comes in from 14 countries worldwide, 36 persons were shot multiple times, 14 stabbed multiple times, 11 were beaten to death, three were burned to death, three dismembered/mutilated, two were tortured, two were strangled, one was hanged, one had her throat cut and one was stoned to death.

What part of this is okay?!!!!

The number of transgender homicide victims in the USA hit a historic high in 2015 . Leading members of Congress had to officially respond and realize that there was an emerging pattern of tragedy which leads to the first-ever forum on transgender violence.

The Human Rights Campaign documented 21 transgender homicide victims in 2015, almost all of them transgender women of colour, and these figures are likely an underestimate due to the difficulty of tracking homicides.

Among all 53 transgender murders from 2013 to 2015, not a single case was prosecuted or reported as a hate crime.

Transgender facts
•    Transgender people are four times more likely to have a household income of less than $10,000 a year
•    70 percent of respondents have been denied access or assaulted or harassed while using public bathrooms
•    78 percent of respondents suffered physical or sexual violence at school and attempted suicide.
•    65 percent of respondents experienced violence at work
•    69 percent of respondents have experienced homelessness.
•    60 percent of respondents reported a doctor or health care provider refused to treat them.
•    57-61 percent of respondents were disrespected or harassed by law enforcement officers.

Transgender people have all these issues facing them daily and you’re scared about them going to the bathroom!


If you need to see anymore Transgender statistics please feel free to read my Caitlyn Jenner post (below) where you can see more Transgender statistics.

Sunday 7 June 2015

you can only lie about who you are for so long without going crazy

Let’s address the “issue” or the “elephant in the room”: the former Olympic athlete Bruce Jenner has become a woman called Caitlyn and all I have to say is good for HER!

It is making me angry that people think that this is wrong and that the Olympic medal should be stripped!?
Why? Caitlyn at the time was Bruce, she was then a male who competed in a male sport please highlight to me where it is stated that this is against the Olympic regulations.

If a Oscar winner changed to their true gender would the public demand that their Oscar be returned to the academy?

Imagine for a minute you are trapped in your body but it is not right.


Now imagine the dark area of you mind filled with all this negativity.

The hidden extent of suicide attempts among young transgender people has been highlighted in a recent study conducted by Pace, a mental health charity for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people, in partnership with Brunel University, the University of Worcester, and London South Bank University. It involved interviews and a survey of more than 2,000 people in England from 2010 to 2014.

A survey found that 48% of transgender people under 26 said they had attempted suicide, and 30% said they had done so in the past year, while 59% said they had at least considered doing so.

The figures on suicide attempts by transgender youths were higher found to be higher than found in previous transgender studies across different age groups. A US study in 2006 found that 32% of transgender people had tried to kill themselves. And the Trans Mental Health Study of 2012 (pdf) found 35% had attempted suicide once and 25% a second time.

The Pace study also found 59% of transgender youths said they had deliberately hurt themselves, compared with 8.9% of all 16- to 24-year-olds. Pace released the findings to the Guardian before Thursday’s International Transgender Day of Remembrance, which annually highlights transphobic murders.


Margaret Unwin, the Pace chief executive, said: “The lack of visibility and acceptance in society contributes to these shocking figures about suicide attempts and self-harm in trans young people. While society’s attitudes towards transgender people are changing, it is still not fast enough and the negative impacts on trans people’s mental health every day are huge.”


Jay Stewart, co-founder of Gendered Intelligence, a group that supports young trans people and seeks to increase education around trans issues, said the findings were not surprising. “We have been working with young people since 2006 and the demand for our services is growing. While there have been many changes in legislation, the realities of young trans people are that they can experience highly negative responses for either being trans or expressing gender variance. Bullying behaviour in schools is endemic and we often find schools sweeping such things under the carpet.”


Juliet Jacques, 33, a journalist and campaigner who documented her transition pre- and post-surgery in a blog for the Guardian from 2010 to 2012, said: “Many young trans people experience discrimination, intolerance, bullying, rejection and violence from several spheres. First at school, a place where gender norms are enforced and policed, where you’re told by teachers and other pupils that boys do x and girls do y. Within the family there can be rejection, verbal and physical abuse, and then also at street level, in the media and in the workplace. Together this can render people unable to see a future for themselves. It is no wonder suicidal thoughts are so common.”
“I have suicidal thoughts every day, even now. A lot of that is too due with the scars of childhood, feeling I lost my youth to this, things I wasn’t able to do because of the discrimination I experienced and because of the trenchant mental health problems that came with it. I’ve found a way of dealing with this. But I’ve been pretty close to the edge several times, and pretty much constantly during my teens, when I didn’t feel I could talk to anyone about it. I found a way back. And I have a lot of support. But not everyone has that.”

Link:http://www.theguardian.com/society/2014/nov/19/young-transgender-suicide-attempts-survey

The international Olympic committee’s policy

The  International Olympic Committee (IOC), the governing body charged with overseeing Olympic competition and those events leading up to the Games, became the first athletic body to adopt a policy of inclusion regarding transgender athletes. The IOC’s policy says only those who have:
1. Undergone sex reassignment surgery
2. Had hormone treatments for at least two years, and
3. Received legal recognition of their transitioned sex
Can participate consistent with their gender identities (IOC, 2003).

Within the guidelines for these polices Caitlyn has done nothing wrong as she hadn’t started any of these process while she was competing.

There are transgender polices in place for much of the sporting world from the Football Association's (FA) to the International Quidditch Association
Link here: http://www.transathlete.com/#!policies-by-organization/c1vyj

All that is left is to say welcome to being a woman Caitlyn Jenner


Thursday 4 June 2015

My last Post was September 2013 ooops

Let’s do a quick update
I graduate in July
I am moving to Spain
I am happy with who I am

I had a quick read of the posts and I did write some good stuff but in amongst the good stuff is rubbish. I will try and keep to the good stuff in the future.

I am waiting to see if this blog will take off again or whether I need to create a new one.


Thank you for reading 

Sunday 16 June 2013

I don't know half of you half as well as I should like; and I like less than half of you half as well as you deserve

 A truthful post

When you are ill it really put things into perspective you not only find out who will abandon you, but you find out who will pick you back up again.

 In my personal experience the people who I thought would stand by me have all but disappeared and we are no longer in contact unless something spectacular happens for example going on a short holiday but that’s enough time wasted on the people who no longer matter.

 I want to talk about the people who stick by you and fight in your corner no matter what. The people who will hold your hand and pull you through the rough patches these are the people that matter but it is these people we unintentionally hurt when you have a bad day or are frustrated and have to deal with the brute force of your anger because you feel lost because nothing is happening and you seem to be stuck in medical limbo.


I have been on both ends of this spectrum I have been the person who helps and the person who is ill and to be honest I would much rather be the person who creates the happiness not the person who takes out there frustration on the ones who stick by them but you don’t always get what you want.  

Wednesday 24 April 2013

Human Nature or Social Networking's FAULT


Hey guys

So I am sorry I haven’t posted in a while but I have had migraine and earache (major ouchy).

I have been thinking and it seems I have lost my truth telling abilities on my blog. I mean if you look at Manners and When I was younger I just wrote the truth the only other ballsy thing I have done since then was the video and I am sorry for that but I will try get back to that style of blogging when the inspiration hits me.

So this may be too much information but I am ill but I won’t go into details because it is nothing serious. I have been off university since January due to only doing one assignment due to going into hospital and I will start again in September.

 I think it is amazing how many people now feel it is there right to know every detail of my life when I haven’t spoken to them in FIVE years and five years ago it wasn’t like we were close anyway. I don’t really post on facebook nowadays I just go on it to check my course page to be nosey and peak at what I will doing next year. The amount of facebook message I have from people who have seen me in town and want to know why I am not at university (if you don’t know it’s none of your business SIMPLE). If I was posting updates about it on facebook I could understand why people would private message me but I am not. I now understand when my pregnant mates post about how everyone wants something to do with them till the baby a couple of months old.

Have social networks caused this invasion of privacy that now everyone now feels that they have a right to know what is going on in your life or is it human nature at its worse.


What did you all think of my video?

Wednesday 17 April 2013

No Longer a Chicken


Hey Guys

I finally did it. I made my video but it is a little tongue in cheek but raise a good point I have not made this video to bully or upset anyone on purpose. 









Technology


Hey Guys
So here’s a thought
How far away are you from a mobile phone?
How about a game console?  

I know irony is going to bite in the butt all through this post but oh well. I know that I am using technology to send this post but I think whenever you do a post about technology and society irony kicks in.



So I found this picture the other day online (I know the Irony) but I think Albert Einstein has a point I know that I am guilty on relying on technology for example my essay timetable for university was on my tablet with weekly reminders. However I try and cut down on using my mobile when I am around my family because firstly it’s RUDE and secondly why waste time on something that is replaceable while something irreplaceable is right in front of you. It makes me laugh when you walk past fast food places and see a group of people sat round a table that are clearly all together and their all on the phone either Tweeting, Facebooking or texting ERM hello your with a group of friends how about you talk to each other and put the phone DOWN.  I also find it rude and annoying when someone is being served by someone at the till while on the phone and commenting on the service or completely ignoring the fact that they are being served and just being plain RUDE there is no need for it. A mobile phone or Ipad or any other devise is replaceable (I know at a cost) but family and friends aren't

Take a look at these TRUE headlines

Mother Kills Baby after Interrupting FarmVille Session
22-year-old potentially faces life in prison after shaking her baby to death.
By Kris Pigna, 10/30/2010

Girl starved to death while parents raised virtual child in online game

Korean couple became obsessed with raising virtual baby while their real infant daughter lay abandoned and unfed
By Mark Tran Friday 5 March 2010

Boy murders his mother over Halo 3

 I know these are extreme but it proves Albert Einstein’s point.  

 I am not saying let’s all get rid of our technology it is more to the point of use it at appropriate times not when life is passing you by. 

Saturday 13 April 2013

The meaning of life is 42

Hey Guys


So today I thought that we could talk about life.

 I think too many people get hung up about something they lose themselves so to speak. I think our time on this plant is short and I don’t think we should spend time worrying about silly things. I know that we all have our responsibilities but we shouldn't get hung up on them to the point you forget to actual live. I am not saying that we should all go jump out of a plane I am saying that we should appreciate the people who are around you and that you love and even if it just meeting over a lunch break. There will come a time when the person you wanted to spend time with will no longer be around and all you will have is regret.