A truthful post
When you are ill it really put things into perspective
you not only find out who will abandon you, but you find out who will pick you
back up again.
In my personal
experience the people who I thought would stand by me have all but disappeared and
we are no longer in contact unless something spectacular happens for example
going on a short holiday but that’s enough time wasted on the people who no
longer matter.
I want to talk
about the people who stick by you and fight in your corner no matter what. The people
who will hold your hand and pull you through the rough patches these are the
people that matter but it is these people we unintentionally hurt when you have
a bad day or are frustrated and have to deal with the brute force of your anger
because you feel lost because nothing is happening and you seem to be stuck in
medical limbo.
I have been on both ends of this spectrum I have been the
person who helps and the person who is ill and to be honest I would much rather
be the person who creates the happiness not the person who takes out there frustration
on the ones who stick by them but you don’t always get what you want.
